Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Rocking the Runways

I had the pleasure of participating in two separate fundraising fashion shows last week. Bet you didn't know I could rock it on a runway!  Ha!

The first, Pretty in Pink Foundation's Pink Fashion Walk was an amazing gala event. Held at the Coastline Convention Center with around 400 people in attendance, this was an outstanding party and they were able to raise a lot of money to help local breast cancer patients pay for care!  40 survivors modeled evening gowns and party dresses from Camilles; hair and makeup done by professionals back stage. There was an awesome shadowbox at the front of the intimidatingly long runway (a la Project Runway). I made so many new friends that night. The energy back stage was incredible. Food, bar, music, swag, THE WALL OF WINE.... every detail was thought of. Listen folks, you don't want to miss this event next year. Let's start planning our table(s) now!

The second event, hosted by Love Is Bald, was a fashion show at downtown Wilmington's Bakery 105. It was really cool to see survivors of all types of cancer, and their loved ones, come together to raise money. This group is a 3rd party fundraiser, and they give funds to other charities each year. This years money goes to the Lo Tide Run, helping local cancer patients pay for treatments. Lots of fashions were modeled this year, including Lure (one of downtown's coolest shops) and The Wedding Dress Shoppe. I had the pleasure of stomping around in two stunning wedding gowns. Not sure I did them justice, but I know they looked better at the show/in person than in the pics I have from the event. Regardless, it was awesome and the energy was great. My favorite part was getting pampered by Adrienne and Lori at Brush Salon. Flecks of gold in my hair and AIRBRUSHED makeup. So much fun!

I have to say, I was really nervous going in to both of these events, but the atmosphere, the camaraderie, the overall energy was amazing. I don't exactly feel "pretty" these days, and modeling, well....HA! But these events made me, and many others, feel truly special, beautiful in that moment, and doing some good for our community at the same time.  You can bet both of these events will be on my calendar for next year. I hope to see you there!


For more information on Pretty in Pink Foundation: https://www.prettyinpinkfoundation.org/
For more information on Love is Bald: http://loveisbald.org/



Don't forget the Run for the Ta Tas 5k race is in less than 2 weeks. Your participation in the race can be in support of either of these charities. I've got the 3rd largest team for the race. Team Brave Like A Tree (discount code TaTas13) may not be the fastest, but we've got SPIRIT! Last day to register for the team is Oct 1 (https://its-go-time.com/runforthetatas2014 and they've posted profiles on some of the participating survivors) See you on race day.

Sunday, September 7, 2014

Dietary Changes

I've got the "all clear" from all the docs. I've healed well, am handling the daily dose of Tamoxifen relatively well (it's messing with my sleep), and have few post-cancer treatment complaints. I still have joint pain regularly, some mood issues from the surgical menopause, and the extra weight to deal with. My hair is growing back in like gangbusters. In fact, I'm already at that awkward "can't do anything with this mop on my head" stage. Woohoo! My doctors are impressed. My surgical oncologist has cleared me for a year. My radiation oncologist wants to see me in a couple of months to check my skin (which is healing just fine) and then he'll clear me for a year too. I'll see my medical oncologist every six months for awhile, as standard practice, and everything goes back to normal with gyn visits. Two thumbs up, eh?!

As you know, my focus is now shifted to figuring out what "normal" will be. There are ups and downs. Some days I push myself a little too hard and end up crazy tired. But, for the most part, I'm fantastic. Part of finding the new normal is figuring out a healthy diet and exercise routine, altering some habits, finding ways to enjoy life everyday and I need to get (and stay) healthy for the long haul. I'm planning to stick around a long time.

When all of this craziness was getting started, several good friends made mention of dietary changes I should consider, but I was so overwhelmed with everything cancer, I just did what I could, when I could. Now that I have more time, I'm looking more closely at their advice. I have good friends!  Before you read on, let me make one important distinction: when I talk about "diet," I mean it in the food-we-eat sense, not the food-we-eat-to-lose-weight sense, though that is an obvious added benefit to making many of these changes, and weight loss is crucial for my long term health. I'm focused, as I've said, on the long haul, not just short term benefits, so I'm working hard to find dietary changes that are evidence-based, healthy, and realistic for me.

First, there's The China Study, a study turned book turned diet plan that is centered around the health benefits of a plant-based diet. We all get it; veggies are good for us. After having read the health stats and comparisons between the Standard American Diet (no coincidence the abbreviation there is SAD) and plant-based diets, like those in rural China, it seems obvious that we standard American dieters need to "get it" a little better. Dr. Campbell's study of plant-based nutrition and disease in China,as discussed in the book, has been a game changer stateside. It's not new, in fact I may be the last person on the planet to have read it, but if not, I've linked to the Amazon page so you can buy it and read it too. Campbell's findings have significant power in terms of US dietary policy (the change in FDA food pyramid to "My Plate" is largely based on the findings and work pioneered by Dr. Campbell), and have influenced research foundation recommendations, like those of the American Institute for Cancer Research. Basically, eat a lot more plants and a lot less (or no) animal-based proteins. But really, the book will blow your mind.

Another, and related, piece of advice was to check into Alkaline diets. While I am still researching and learning about alkaline vs acid foods and how they impact our bodies and our health, some of the basics seem, well, basic. Largely plant based, though some fish is ok, alkaline diets consider the pH of foods and place them on a spectrum from acid to alkaline. The more acidic our bodies are, the more disease and other health related issues stir up. Acidity and inflammation in the body are closely linked. And, as it seems, the more acidic our diet, the more inflammation in our bodies, the more health problems we have. In terms of evidence-based recommendations, there is something to be said for alkaline diets, mostly because they promote healthy eating habits and a predominantly plant-based diet, as well as pushing you to rid your diet of processed foods, alcohol, and caffeine. There is no scientific data that proves any of the claims made by the "alkies," but even WebMD (a mainstream, popular medical info site) says that there is some "evidence that a diet low in acid-producing foods like animal protein (such as meat and cheese) and bread and high in fruits and veggies could help prevent kidney stones, keep bones and muscles strong, improve heart health and brain function, reduce low back pain, and lower risk for colon cancer and type 2 diabetes." I'm not jumping ship on my morning coffee routine just yet, but I can cut it back to one cup of java a day, drink more water, eat A LOT more veggies ( i do love them anyway!), and keep reading and researching. Don't worry, I'll do the leg work and share it all with you!    

As I was writing this blog about diet and nutrition, my tummy started rumbling. I've already walked off (3 miles in the heat and humidity) my morning indulgence of fresh-from-the-oven Sweet Beer Bread that mom made (I really should ask her to share that recipe with all of you). I had a head of cabbage in the fridge that needed to be used up, and mom had mentioned earlier that a stir-fry would be a good option.  Here's what I whipped up. Seriously tasty. Eat it on its own, add "ramen" noodles for a yummy noodle bowl, serve over rice or quinoa, serve as a side-dish to homemade Chinese food..whatever, just eat this!  You can thank me later.


Cabbage Stir-Fry
1 small head Cabbage, sliced thin (most varieties will work)
1 medium or ½ large sweet onion, sliced thin
½ cup vegetable broth
1tbsp Hoisin sauce
Kosher salt, powdered ginger, black pepper, garlic powder to taste
2tbsps. Coconut oil


Heat Oil in deep skillet or wok-pan on med/high heat. Add thinly sliced cabbage & onion, sprinkle with kosher salt & pepper. Stir occasionally. In small bowl, whisk together vegetable broth, Hoisin sauce, garlic & ginger powders. Once cabbage and onion are wilted, pour in sauce mixture. Cook 3-5 minutes on med/high heat, stirring frequently.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

SUP?!

In the canoe, shortly before it got scary.
Last summer, I went with my family on a trip to the NC mountains for some late summer fun and relaxation. Novices, we decided to check out a local river for some canoeing. What started out a serene journey in fairly shallow water ended with my family evacuating tipping canoes, climbing onto a low lying bridge (one we'd pinned our canoes against), and watching on as Doug and I struggled to get our footing on the slippery rocks of the riverbed. We were both in the water and trying to get out of a rushing current when my leg got pinned between our canoe and the side of a low lying bridge. Luckily, the canoe eventually dislodged itself and bobbed beneath the bridge and down the river, freeing my leg. We helped each other climb up onto the bridge. It was just two months before Doug and I married, three and a half months before my cancer diagnosis and nothing if not a symbol of the work that was to come.

I've been a little preoccupied with surviving since the cancer diagnosis, but in the back of my mind, I've wanted to get back out in the water. It felt like I needed a good experience sporting on the water to wipe the scary-canoeing-incident slate clean. I'd talked a lot about trying paddle-boarding. "Talked" is the key word here. I've put on a lot of weight, and my bones and joints aren't the same since chemo. My poor ankles can hardly stand to support my weight just walking around, forget about trying to balance on a board out in the water. Oh, and then there's the fact that I really don't know much about paddling...  Anyway, we have friends who paddle-board, and there are lessons available all over town, but it was going to be one of those back-burner things. Something I would try one day, and blog about, when I was stronger and slimmer.  

And then along came Pretty In Pink Foundation...  I stopped by their office in mid-July to meet the local coordinator, Joy, and their exercise physiologist, Laura. They showed me around the offices, and we chatted. I mentioned starting this blog to them, and how paddle-boarding was one of the things I wanted to do and then write about. Wouldn't you know it, they were going the next day at high tide with another survivor, Ann, and they even had an extra board that had been donated to the organization. Ann had learned to SUP (Stand-Up Paddle-board) while she was in treatment for her cancer. It was an outlet, a thing of solace, and a way to stay active. She grew so fond of it (it's addicting) that it became a normal part of her life, and now she wants to teach others. Well, Lord knows I need a good teacher when in the water, so when Joy and Laura invited me along (heck, they even rearranged their schedules to accommodate mine), I couldn't resist. 
A view of Bradley Creek

That next afternoon, when I should have been home prepping for my hysterectomy (it was scheduled for the next day), I met up with Ann, Laura, and Joy on a dock at Bradley Creek.I was a bundle of nerves with a million fearful questions running through my head. Would I be able to balance? Could I stand up? Could I paddle? In the right direction? Would I hit a boat? Would one hit me? If I fell off, could I even pull my own weight out of the water? Would the girls laugh at me? You get the picture...

Ann and Laura put me right at ease. Joy stayed behind to take a few snapshots of us out on the water. I didn't even know how to get on a paddle-board, but they showed me and helped keep it steady until I was settled. They got on their boards, and off we went.
Here goes nothing...

Getting settled
I immediately failed, which normally would have sent me right back to dry land. But I was determined to keep going. You see, I had paddled the wrong way, setting us up for an easy start to our journey by moving with the current, but a harder ride home, having to paddle against the current when we were already tired at the end of the trip. That hadn't been their plan. I was supposed to go the other way but couldn't seem to get it together enough to turn around. Ann and Laura were great, explaining and showing me how to paddle, where to position my feet, how to stand up. They stuck with me, despite my screw-up, and taught me how to do it right.
Heading out... in the wrong direction!
LOL!

I think I would have been satisfied to sit on my butt in the middle of that board and just enjoy the serene scene. Sunshine, a light breeze, ever-so-slightly cool water rushing against my dangling feet. I mean really... it was a beautiful day. But I really wanted to be able to say I did it; I stood up. And guess what?!  I DID IT!!! I wasn't graceful, and I'm sure it wasn't fun to watch, but on my second attempt, I.STOOD.UP!!! And I stayed up for at least 5 mins, maybe more. I stood up and paddled that board by a moving boat, under a bridge, and even turned around (my paddling skills grew exponentially, it seems, in the hour we were on the water). Just when I thought I'd lose my balance, I threw my butt down on that board so fast. I never ended up taking a dip in the water. I made it all the way out and back without falling in!  I know... I was shocked too!

Determined!
OK, so there isn't any photographic evidence of me standing,
but Ann and Laura will vouch for me, right girls?
I couldn't stop smiling! 

I felt so triumphant when we got back to the dock. I may not have been graceful, and I know I didn't look pretty doing it, but who cares?! With their support, and a little courage and tenacity, I overcame a lot of fear, and I know doing things like this (active, fun, and physical) I will get back to a place where I can call myself healthy. This is survival and healing all wrapped up in one. 


Oh, if you haven't tried it yet... What are you waiting for? DO IT!!!

Thursday, August 7, 2014

What's it all about?

After completing an aggressive treatment plan for stage 3a, grade 2, Invasive Ductal Carcinoma, I still face scary odds. Statistics show that a mere 63% of women in my situation are alive 5 years after this diagnosis. Surgery, chemotherapy and radiation have all reduced my chance of recurrence, but I cannot stop there. A healthy and active lifestyle increases my odds of being among the 63%. My diagnosis and the ordeal of treatment has awakened something in me, a need to experience things I've missed out on, to pursue goals and dreams with more tenacity, to confront my fears and insecurities, to really and joyfully  live all of my life, and to share with others what I learn along the way. This is my journey to beat the odds. I hope you'll join me!